Pretty much the only gals that I've shot with were brought by a boyfriend, husband, or family member. Women rarely show up on their own.
My chica, for example, went to a National OP with us, and quite a few local games. Only because I payed and convinced her to go. She did have a good time, but wouldn't go otherwise.
There was ONE girl I knew of that really wanted to play, but I never got her out to a game. She was an Army Flight Medic so I suppose she just wanted to see what it was like to shoot someone instead of patching them up. :lol: