Lasivian,
Let me start off by saying that I'm sorry you have decided to leave.
Now, let's all be honest here.
I don't think airsoft was ever really for you. Whatever ideas you had of what airsoft, or more specifically AA, was, I don't think they were entirely realized. There's nothing wrong with that.
Your lady won't come to anymore games. That's fine. But, what was she really expecting? Again, I think her expectations were inaccurate. I mean, we dress up and shoot each other with BB guns. I'm afraid the perverse prose of Vince in between skirmishes is as philosophical as we get here in AA. She wasn't expecting daycare, but was she really expecting a Deepak Chopra seminar?
We have to be realistic here and admit that you added more on the forums here than you actually went to games. Most of us do that, no problem. My point is that you seem to have witnessed plenty of the bad, but never seemed to attend any national events with regularity. The same events that airsofters such as myself consider the meat and potatoes of our hobby.
We are a rude, crude crowd, and a thick skin is highly recommended. I hate to think you've taken offense to some of the rubbish we've spouted during your time here.
Lastly, if you want to leave, all you have to do is...
...leave.
We're not going to delete your account.
No one is going to remove all your old posts.
If you don't want to read posts here anymore, you no one is making you.
But understand that it's likely none of the Mods really want to take the time to remove all the old posts just because our internet forum left a bad taste in your mouth.
Best of luck up north. Maybe you can find another group of airsofters up there with whom you can take more pleasure in associating with.
Take care!