KBR boils our shit, then dries it on HI HEAT with fabric softener sheets. Everything shrinks and fades like a motherfucker!
A good solution for those of us that like to wear clean clothing is to do what CPL said and wash it inside out with either dreft or woolite.
An extra step that I use is to rinse in liquid fabric softener, throw it in the drier for 5 minutes then line dry.
The softener keeps the fibers soft, and I've found it helps military garments last longer. I've never noticed my clothes glowing any more than anyone elses under NODs.