Actually, the real SpecOps guys have on several occasions lookat coming out here, and there are a few here already.
Again, I'm not asking anyone or suggesting you should join. Its out there for those who want what it offers.
And in the REAL Army, you follow orders not out of fear of punishment, but out of respect for the position and command, and dedication to the mission. In the REAL world, not much unlike airsoft, when the shit hits the fan its really only about you and the guy next to you. Take the ego out of the equation when you consider rank and command. Its a method of organization - thats all it is. Every major corporation uses the same management system.
I might have a rank but I don't flaunt it or try to assume command of anything. My position is as an organizer and developer - because I have the vision of where things can go. If I want to feed my ego I'll go to a fast food restaurant or trash someone in court.