funkylover, you need to browse around the forums (and other airsoft forums as well) and not post so much. Many of your questions can probably be answered by using the search function and even Google. Become informed by just reading the forums for a while. Like you said, you will need to wait a while before you can play in the "good games". Many players here have posted very helpful advice and opinions that you should use to help guide yourself through your growth as an airsoft player.
In the mean time, look around and read what other, more experienced players have to write about. If anyone else has some advice for you, they are welcome to PM you. See you around!